missharpersworld

Anonymous asked:

When unable to submit in a relationship, I feel the void of life swallow me whole, leaving but a shell of a woman.

missharpersworld answered:

i’m so sorry you feel that way. that must be terrible. 

when i read this i feel compelled to tell you that you must be your own whole, fulfilled and complete person, not looking for another to complete you.  YES submission fills a hole nothing else can but you cannot sit around in life letting yourself waste away if you have yet to find that healthy D/s relationship  you have to LIVE. find the things you enjoy, and do them. find people you like spending time with, and be with them. buy the shoes, read the books, take the walks, go on the trips, laugh, cry - do it all.

being in a relationship with someone who knows themselves and cares for themselves is incredibly fulfilling and usually gives a better foundation for lasting than not.  we as submissives cannot wait around for our Dom to make our lives fulfilling.  life CAN be fulfilling outside of a D/s relationship - as we work on ourselves and finding that right man. (or woman)

this kind of thinking is the very thing that has submissives settling for less than suitable - if not abusive - Doms in their lives.  i understand the sentiment and i’m so sorry you feel that way but i beg you - invest in yourself - take the reins of your life and LIVE it - don’t wait to find the joy in life till the right D/s relationship finds you.

missharpersworld:

i’m reblogging this because i need to feel like i actually might make a positive impact on this site somehow. 

Yes missharpersworld correct:)
daddyjamesdesires

daddyjamesdesires:

Ah, that delicious feeling, as I sloooowly slide into your virgin ass for the first time.

We have been training for weeks, first with fingers, then a few princess plugs in varying sizes, and finally a small dildo.

Now it’s time for the reasl thing, for you to give your ass to me.

As I slide my well lubricated cock into you slowly, we will soon be moving at a steady pace. You begin pushing back against me as the initial pain gives way to a slowly mounting pleasure.

Soon I will be sinking all the way into you, feeling the tightness, and reveling in the debauchery.

Sooner, rather than later, I will fill your bowels with my cum, as you moan in ectasy.

Soon ….. Friday can’t get here fast enough

missharpersworld
soft-kitti3:

mymmm:

buggybee:

obsessedbystrawberry:

I saw a girl with one of these on the other day … she saw me staring and blushed .. 

Ooooh!!! So pretty! I’d have gone up to her and high fived her 😊

A heart is a beautiful giftNow this is one to showOwnership of more than heart

Love love love it!

Awww I am wanting this sooooo badly I can feel it ….sigh #cartierlovebracet #cartierprobs

soft-kitti3:

mymmm:

buggybee:

obsessedbystrawberry:

I saw a girl with one of these on the other day … she saw me staring and blushed .. 

Ooooh!!! So pretty! I’d have gone up to her and high fived her 😊

A heart is a beautiful gift
Now this is one to show
Ownership of more than heart

Love love love it!

Awww I am wanting this sooooo badly I can feel it ….sigh #cartierlovebracet #cartierprobs

missharpersworld

littles-and-bigs-playground:

It’s sad that I even need to do this write up at all. This should be a given.

The abandonment of littles is rampant in this lifestyle right now, and that is NOT ok. If you even for one second think you are interested in being a caregiver then you really need to…

missharpersworld
missharpersworld:

submissiveinclination:

ms-woodsworld:

Oh goodness…those are too cute for words. Am I right?
thesubkitten girlslovegoodinnuendo mrsladysmythe buggybee submissiveinclination lilmisssblueeyes asubssoul2013 missharpersworld msexplorer my-sea-of-time  and many more that I’m forgetting…

Perfect for Sunday tea… Of course they come off along with the dress and the hat.~smile~

I agree 100% with everything S.I. said ! :) love these.

Perfection

missharpersworld:

submissiveinclination:

ms-woodsworld:

Oh goodness…those are too cute for words. Am I right?

thesubkitten girlslovegoodinnuendo mrsladysmythe buggybee submissiveinclination lilmisssblueeyes asubssoul2013 missharpersworld msexplorer my-sea-of-time  and many more that I’m forgetting…

Perfect for Sunday tea… Of course they come off along with the dress and the hat.
~smile~

I agree 100% with everything S.I. said ! :) love these.

Perfection